Wednesday, March 25, 2026

You Betta Werk!

Why yes, yes I have been listening to Our Sacred Lady of Glamour, Rupaul lately, and I thought it fitting to lift a line from a song for this post about another trailblazer I wanted to briefly share today.

On this day 115 years ago (March 25, 1911), Frances Perkins bore witness to one of the most horrific events in labor history of America; the devastating fire of the Triangle Shirtwaist Factory in New York City. She watched as 47 people, mostly young women and girls (workers of said factory) leapt to their death from windows on the 8th, and 9th floors as the building was consumed by flames. Why were they throwing themselves out of windows, you ask? Because the doors were chained shut, and locked to prevent "theft," of course! The final tally of workers killed that day reached 147 souls, making this gruesome inferno the spark that lead to the birth of The New Deal, first by way of the creation of the citizen's Committee on Safety. In her staggering 54 year career, including a stint as the first woman appointed to a presidential cabinet where she found herself at the helm of the Department of Labor, she played a major role in ushering in the changes, and building laws that gave us weekends, over-time pay, minimum wage, Social Security, the abolition of child labor, just to name a few ... Basically, every worker-protection we take for granted today, traces its roots back to the moment when a woman's tea-time was interrupted by a mass-death event, and she decided that things don't actually have to be this way, and got to work doing something about it.

Thank you Frances

Friday, March 20, 2026

Quiet Riot

 Whickens: 
When the Earth tentatively begins to wake from the death of Winter.

In just the last week alone, I've had power outages, snow days, power outages + snow days on the same day, wind storms, torrential rain, a chirping smoke alarm, and no green beer on March 17th (the horror!), but tonight the frogs are singing...

The new season is here, folks. I remember looking out the window early this morning thinking, "Spring Equinox, yeah right!" But the frogs are telling their stories tonight, relief from this long, tumultuous Winter is on the way, at long last!

xoxo 

Saturday, February 14, 2026

Holding Out for a Hero

Where have all the good men gone and where are all the gods?
Where's the streetwise Hercules to fight the risin' odds?
Isn't there a white knight upon a fiery steed?
Late at night, I toss and I turn and I dream of what I need

I need a hero
I'm holding out for a hero 'til the end of the night
He's gotta be strong and he's gotta be fast 
And he's gotta be fresh from the fight
I need a hero
I'm holding out for a hero 'til the morning light
He's gotta be sure and it's gotta be soon
And he's gotta be larger than life, larger than life 

Somewhere after midnight in my wildest fantasy
Somewhere just beyond my reach, there's someone reaching back for me
Racing on the thunder and rising with the heat
It's gonna take a Superman to sweep me off my feet

I need a hero 
I'm holding out for a hero 'til the end of the night
He's gotta be strong and he's gotta be fast 
And he's gotta be fresh from the fight
I need a hero
I'm holding out for a hero 'til the morning light
He's gotta be sure and it's gotta be soon
And he's gotta be larger than life
I need a hero
I'm holding out for a hero 'til the end of the night 

Up where the mountains meet the heavens above
Out where the lightning splits the sea
I could swear there is someone somewhere watching me
Through the wind and the chill and the rain
And the storm and the flood
I can feel his approach like a fire in my blood

I need a hero...

Written by, Jim Steinman, Dean Pitchford
Performed by, Bonnie Tyler  

Friday, January 9, 2026

Where My Quitters At?

From the front to back, well, is you feelin' that? Put one hand up, can you repeat that? Tryna tank my year, see I don't need that ...

I'm confident that my readers are NOT uncultured swine, but for the casual stragglers who somehow found themselves stumbling through what's left of the internet and landing in this very strange corner of it, feel free to click the link for educational purposes...We'll wait!

Now that we're all caught up, Happy National Quitters Day!!!

Thursday, January 1, 2026

Ready ... Set ...


  Word of the year: Go!

xoxo 

Wednesday, December 31, 2025

My Wish for the New Year

"You have to be willing to look at your darkness in order to see the light." 
                                                                                            -Gabrielle Bernstein

I hope 2026 allows each, and every one of us to receive the clarity we deserve. Good luck out there, Lovers! Stay safe, party responsibly, and I'll catch ya next year!

xoxo 

Thursday, December 25, 2025

Friday, October 31, 2025

I know that ghosts HAVE wandered on earth

"You said I killed you— haunt me, then! Be with me always—take any form—drive me mad! Only do not leave me in this abyss, where I can not find you!"

Emily Brontë, "Wuthering Heights," 1847